Here's what I was using:

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What I decided to do was to simply mount two switches in the sunroof motor cover, and wire them to activate the remote opener switches on the remote's circuit board. Here are the switches I used (Radio Shack PN 275-644, $2.69 each):

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I took the cover off, measured how far in from the right and left side the sunroof items interfered to make sure I could fit two switches in between, found the center of the cover and marked the spots for the centers of the switch holes 1/2" to each side, which would leave 1/2" between the switches. you can just see the pencil marks shining in the camera's flash, and this is after I center punched the hole centers:

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After drilling the two 1/2" holes (even with center punching the plastic, the drill wandered a bit, so for the next hole I started with a 1/4" drill and worked my way up to 1/2"), I mounted the two switches (really lousy pic, but I think you can get the idea):

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I popped open the case of the remote, and removed the circuit board. The controller board switches had one common terminal so I made that the black wired terminal, ran one black wire between the two switches and another to that common terminal. I then ran one red wire from the other terminal of each switch to the other switch contacts on the circuit board:

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The final step in assembly was to cover the exposed circuit board with electrical tape, insert the circuit board up into the cavity where the sunroof motor is and pop the cover back in place. Here's the final result:

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It works like a charm and I think it looks a lot more "factory". All in all, it took less than an hour and cost just over 5 bucks.